That's a really good picture! For those of you who have not been to the Model Boat Pond, the sight lines to the nest are not good and the nest is quite far away. It's very hard to photograph. I felt that Pale Male's light coloring was much more distinctive in person than in photographs -- did you have the same reaction?
Paul
That's true; I think the photograph tends to emphasize the contrast rather than the absolute coloring. However, even in the photograph you can see that his belly band is not very apparent, his head is blondish, and he's got that white streak down the front of his face. If you look at photos of him next to Lima (like this one:
http://ep.yimg.com/ca/I/palemale-store_2182_373216685), you can see she's got a very dark belly band, and very dark head. After we'd left the guys with the scopes and were heading out of the park, we saw a hawk in the air who landed on a building even further away...but based on the coloring (very bad light again), we're pretty sure she is Lima (note the much darker head and belly band).
So in answer to Donna, I think we did see the missus!